davidc wrote:No, just usually operate on the principle that being overly (embarrassingly?) clear on forums where the spoken nuance is lost is the safest way
It helps that we know each other in real life. I long ago accepted that people will misinterpret even the mostly carefully worded statements, which many forum entries aren't. The simplest and quickest method when something gets batted back and forth is to pick up the phone, not something which is possible online.